What To Do When The Elderly Fall In Love |
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Nearly all of us have these fixed ideas how the elderly should behave and act, and that is why we find it very difficult to accept that the elderly can also fall in love. So, if you have an elderly relative then you would be definitely asking yourself what to do when the elderly fall in love. (See Reference 1)
Just a few decades ago, it was unthinkable that a senior would be dating and falling in love. Seniors were struggling with health issues and most of them did not have the time or energy to pursue love. However, with improved health care, better diet and more exercise, seniors are now living longer and healthier lives. (See Reference 1) This means that they have more time and inclination to meet more people and in the bargain they can find love all over again.
Rather than getting flustered about a senior relative or loved one falling in love, we should be more supportive and understanding. No one likes to be alone or lonely. The same is also true for the elderly. Most seniors know what they want out of life and are not as naïve or gullible as we think they are. (See Reference 2) So, instead of be critical about seniors falling in love, we should see that they find the companionship and love they deserve. At least you can be certain that there is someone in your elderly loved one's life who will offer them fun and entertainment that you may not have the time to offer.
You should be supportive and encourage a senior loved one to meet other seniors and have a social life. After all, there is sufficient evidence to show that seniors who have active social lives tend to be healthier (See Reference 2) and are less prone to depression and other mental ailments.
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